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Confused, alone

Started : 8.5.2019 by Piano

my mom was just diagnosed with cancer about a month ago, and starts treatment this week, im not sure how to respond or handle it...everyone looks at me in pity! i dont want pity...

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1 - Peanuts 30/10/2019 @ 16:55

I remember when my mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer many years ago, I could tell everyone looked at me with pity. If your worried about your mom or are wanting to know what’s going to happen make sure you talk to her or any of your family. Don’t keep it bottled inside of you. Although you do have to stay strong I think it’s equally important to still laugh together but also cry together. It may still be hard to talk to other people about it but when your ready just explain that all you need is a hug or are you okay. People get scared to ask you if your okay as they think it’s a stupid question but all you need is to express how your feeling. If there’s anything I can help with I’m here xx

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